TOXIC POSITIVITY
- Hayley McAuley

- Jan 29, 2022
- 1 min read
What is toxic positivity?
đź’ĄThe belief that no matter how bad things are, you should remain positive.
đź’ĄDismisses negative emotions
đź’ĄOffers false reassurance
đź’ĄComes from not being comfortable with negative emotions
đź’ĄCan cause an inability to recognise negative feelings
đź’ĄCreates a false reality
đź’ĄInvalidates someone's
feelings and lived experiences
Now we all know that having a positive, growth mindset is good for mental health.
BUT
Too much positivity can actually lead to a decline in mental health. It strips away the ability to deal with difficult situations and emotional times. It can cause guilt and shame for feeling negative emotions because they have not been validated.
Being positive all the time is not authentically human. We all have a range of emotions that are valid and when we learn to be able to express these, understand what they are telling us, it gives us deeper insight and therefore improves personal growth.
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